Where you are
You feel invisible.
Two women in the Gospels spent years feeling exactly that way. Both were seen completely.
The Woman at the Well
You’ve gotten used to being overlooked. Maybe you’ve even started arranging your life around it — avoiding the places and people that remind you how small you feel. The woman at the well had done exactly that. She came to draw water alone at noon, in the heat, just to avoid the crowd that made her feel like nothing. And a Jewish rabbi — someone who by every cultural rule of the day had no business speaking to her — sat down and had the most significant conversation of her life with her. He knew everything about her. He told her things He hadn’t told almost anyone else. And then He sent her — the woman no one wanted to draw water with — back to her town — the first person in John’s Gospel to bring a whole town to Him. You are not too small, too broken, or too far outside the circle to matter to Him. He goes out of His way for the people everyone else walks past.
The Bleeding Woman
You’ve been invisible long enough that you’ve stopped expecting to be seen. Maybe you’ve learned to move through the world without being noticed — to take up as little space as possible, to need as little as possible. The woman in this story had been sick for twelve years. By the rules of her culture she was untouchable — she couldn’t worship, couldn’t be embraced, couldn’t even brush past someone in a crowd without making them unclean. When Jesus came by, she didn’t dare approach Him. She slipped through the crowd and touched the hem of His cloak hoping no one would notice. She was healed instantly. He could have walked on. Instead He stopped and looked for her, because He wasn’t going to let her stay anonymous in this. When she came forward trembling, He called her daughter — the only person in the Gospels He ever addressed that way. Not patient. Not stranger. Daughter. He sees you. And He’s not going to let you stay invisible either.
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