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You’ve lost something or someone.
Grief is in good company here.
Naomi
Grief has a way of making the future disappear. When you’ve lost something or someone that defined your world, it can feel like the story is simply over — that whatever comes next is just aftermath. Naomi lost her husband and both her sons and came back to her hometown with nothing. She was so honest about it that she refused to answer to her own name. “Call me Bitter,” she said. “I went away full and came back empty.” God didn’t correct her for that. He didn’t rebuke her honesty. And He didn’t leave her alone in it — even when she couldn’t see what was already beside her. The young woman walking next to her on that road would become the beginning of a story Naomi couldn’t have imagined from where she was standing. She came back empty. She didn’t know she was already walking toward fullness. Whatever you’ve lost — the emptiness you feel right now is not the final shape of your story.
Mary and Martha
You’ve lost someone. And maybe you’ve been told — by well-meaning people, by your own faith — that you should have peace about it, that they’re in a better place, that grief and belief shouldn’t coexist. Mary and Martha believed in Jesus completely. They had seen what He could do. And when their brother died they both said the same thing to His face: “if you had been here this wouldn’t have happened.” Raw. Honest. Devastated. And Jesus didn’t correct them or comfort them with theology. He asked where Lazarus was laid. He saw them weeping. And He wept too. Before the miracle. Before the stone moved. Before anything changed — He stood in the middle of their grief and let it matter to Him. The shortest verse in the Bible is this: Jesus wept. Your grief is not a failure of faith. It moved Him to tears. He is not standing at a distance from your loss asking you to be okay. He is standing in it with you.
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